Do you see junk? Stuff? Piles? Clutter?
Now think about this: Clutter is really just delayed decision making.
Couldn't decide what to do with this...where to file that...if you needed to keep or donate this. Couldn't decide on a home for that...really didn't have room for this...didn't have files made for that pile of paper...don't have time to decide on these papers...couldn't remember if that fit... And then, can't decide where to start organizing...should I ask for help... The list is endless but a lot of it comes down to decision making. We delay making a decision and clutter forms.
To help make decisions as you organize ask the following questions:
- Do I need this? (If not have a bag or box ready and labeled to collect trash and donations.)
- What purpose will it serve? (Everything needs a purpose!)
- Do I love this? Is it beautiful?
- Does this reflect the life I envision and desire? (Your old collection of thimbles or your 80's southwestern art may not be who you are now - or who you want to be!)
- What will happen if I get rid of it? Is it information I can find elsewhere if I were to need it again?
- Do I use it? Do I wear it (and look good) in it?
If you still can't make a decision try this:
Take a deep breath. Close your eyes. Exhale. Hold the item and be still for a moment. Envision the life you want. Are you feeling heavy and burdened by the item you are holding? Or, are you feeling excited and hopeful of the future as you hold this item. This method will confirm the answer you probably knew but didn't want to face.
Try doing this with 5 items per day. Keep a labeled donate box open and in an accessible spot - right inside your garage door, in your laundry room, etc. Start doing this regularly and you will get better at making decisions and clutter will start to disappear!!
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